Understanding the hotel guest journey is the cornerstone of modern hospitality marketing. It’s no longer enough to simply advertise your property and wait for bookings. Today’s travelers engage with hotels across a complex, multi-stage path, and a failure to connect with them at any point can mean losing them to a competitor. To succeed, marketing teams must move beyond isolated campaigns and adopt a holistic strategy that aligns with every phase of this journey.
This comprehensive guide breaks down the six critical stages of the hotel guest journey, from the initial spark of an idea to the lasting relationship after a stay. For each stage, we’ll explore the guest’s mindset, identify the key touchpoints, and provide actionable marketing strategies to win their attention, trust, and loyalty. By aligning your efforts with this framework, you can create a more cohesive, effective, and profitable marketing ecosystem.
Stage 1: The Dreaming Stage
The journey begins not with a search, but with an inspiration. The dreaming stage is when a potential guest is idly imagining a trip. They aren’t actively planning yet; they’re exploring possibilities. They might be scrolling through Instagram, watching a travel vlog, or reading a magazine article. Their mindset is aspirational and open-ended.
Guest Mindset: “I want to go somewhere beautiful,” or “I need a relaxing getaway.” They are looking for ideas and inspiration, not specific dates or prices.
Key Touchpoints:
- Social Media (Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest, Facebook)
- Travel blogs and online magazines
- Travel influencers and content creators
- Word-of-mouth recommendations
Marketing Strategies for the Dreaming Stage
Your goal here is to plant a seed. You want your property to become part of their dream. This stage is all about visual storytelling and emotional connection, not hard sells.
Leverage High-Quality Visuals on Social Media:
Your hotel’s social media channels are your digital storefront in the dreaming phase. Post stunning, professional-quality photos and videos that showcase not just your rooms, but the experience of staying at your property. Capture a breathtaking sunset from your balcony, the steam rising from a coffee cup by the pool, or the vibrant atmosphere of your lobby bar. Use Reels and TikToks to create short, immersive video content that transports viewers to your location.
Collaborate with Influencers:
Partner with travel influencers whose audience aligns with your target demographic. An authentic post from a trusted creator can introduce your hotel to thousands of potential guests who are actively looking for travel inspiration. Focus on micro-influencers for more targeted and often more engaged audiences.
Create Inspirational Blog Content:
Develop blog content that sells the destination first and your hotel second. Write articles like “The Ultimate Guide to a Weekend in [Your City]” or “10 Hidden Gems to Discover Near [Your Location].” By becoming a valuable source of information about the area, you build trust and associate your brand with the destination itself.
Stage 2: The Planning Stage
Once the dream solidifies into a potential trip, the guest enters the planning stage. Now, they are actively researching. They are comparing destinations, looking at flight prices, and starting to search for accommodation. Their mindset shifts from aspirational to practical. They are looking for options, value, and social proof.
Guest Mindset: “Where should I stay in [City]? What hotels are in my budget? What do other travelers say?”
Key Touchpoints:
- Online Travel Agencies (OTAs) like Booking.com and Expedia
- Review sites like TripAdvisor and Google Reviews
- Search engines (e.g., “best hotels in miami beach”)
- Your hotel’s website
Marketing Strategies for the Planning Stage
During this phase, you need to be visible, credible, and compelling. Your objective is to make the shortlist of hotels the guest is considering.
Optimize for Search (SEO and SEM):
Ensure your hotel’s website ranks high for relevant keywords. This includes optimizing for long-tail keywords like “family-friendly resort with a pool in Orlando.” Complement your organic SEO efforts with a paid search engine marketing (SEM) campaign to capture high-intent searchers who are ready to book.
Master Your OTA and Review Site Profiles:
Your profiles on OTAs and review sites are critical. Ensure all information is accurate and that your photos are up-to-date and professional. Actively manage your reviews by responding promptly and professionally to both positive and negative feedback. A hotel that engages with its guests online appears more trustworthy and customer-focused.
Implement Retargeting Campaigns:
Use retargeting ads to stay top-of-mind with users who have visited your website but haven’t booked yet. Display ads on social media and other websites can remind them of your beautiful property and pull them back into the booking funnel. You can even segment these ads, showing a user an ad for the exact room type they viewed.
Stage 3: The Booking Stage

The guest has narrowed down their options and is ready to make a reservation. At this point, they are highly value-conscious and risk-averse. They are looking for the best possible deal and a frictionless booking process. Any small hurdle can cause them to abandon the cart and book with a competitor.
Guest Mindset: “Am I getting the best price? Is this process secure and easy? What are the cancellation policies?”
Key Touchpoints:
- Your hotel’s direct booking engine
- OTA booking pages
- Metasearch sites (Google Hotel Ads, Kayak)
Marketing Strategies for the Booking Stage
Your primary goal is to secure the booking, ideally through your direct channel to avoid high OTA commissions. The key is to build trust and eliminate friction.
Incentivize Direct Bookings:
Make your website the most attractive place to book. Offer a “Book Direct” package that includes exclusive perks you can’t get on OTAs, such as a complimentary room upgrade, free breakfast, a welcome drink, or a flexible cancellation policy. Clearly display these benefits on your site.
Optimize Your Booking Engine:
Your booking engine must be simple, fast, and mobile-friendly. The process should require a minimal number of clicks. Display clear pricing without hidden fees. Show a progress bar to manage expectations. Ensure the platform is secure and displays trust signals, like SSL certificates and credit card logos. A clunky or slow booking engine is a major cause of abandoned carts.
Use Urgency and Scarcity (Ethically):
Incorporate subtle messages to encourage immediate booking. Phrases like “Only 2 rooms left at this price!” or “Booked 5 times in the last 24 hours” can create a sense of urgency. Use these tactics honestly to avoid creating a poor user experience.
Stage 4: The Pre-Stay Stage
The booking is made, but the journey is far from over. The pre-stay period, from the moment of booking to the day of arrival, is a golden opportunity to build excitement and enhance the guest experience. The guest’s mindset is one of anticipation and logistical planning.
Guest Mindset: “I’m excited for my trip! What should I pack? How do I get to the hotel? What can I do when I’m there?”
Key Touchpoints:
- Booking confirmation emails
- Pre-arrival emails
- Your hotel’s mobile app
Marketing Strategies for the Pre-Stay Stage
Your goal is to build anticipation, provide helpful information, and begin upselling. This is where you transition from a marketer to a digital concierge.
Send a Series of Value-Driven Emails:
Go beyond a single, transactional confirmation email. Create an automated email drip campaign.
- 7 days before arrival: Send an email with helpful tips for their trip, like a packing list, weather forecast, and transportation options from the airport.
- 3 days before arrival: Send an email showcasing on-property amenities. This is your chance to upsell. Offer them the opportunity to book a spa treatment, make a dinner reservation, or upgrade their room.
- 1 day before arrival: Send a final email with check-in information, and promote your mobile app as a way to check in remotely and use a digital key.
Promote Your Mobile App:
Frame your app as the key to a seamless stay. In your pre-arrival communications, highlight the benefits of downloading it, such as mobile check-in, digital key access, in-app ordering, and a direct chat feature with the front desk.
Stage 5: The On-Stay Stage

This is the moment of truth. The guest has arrived, and their experience on your property will determine their ultimate satisfaction. Their mindset is focused on enjoyment, comfort, and making the most of their trip. They expect the promises you made during the earlier stages to be fulfilled.
Guest Mindset: “How can I make the most of my stay? I hope everything is as good as it looked online. I need quick service.”
Key Touchpoints:
- Front desk staff and all other hotel employees
- The hotel room and physical amenities
- Your hotel’s mobile app and in-room technology
- On-property signage (e.g., QR codes)
Marketing Strategies for the On-Stay Stage
While this stage is heavily operational, marketing still plays a crucial role in shaping the experience and driving ancillary revenue.
Leverage In-App Push Notifications:
Use your mobile app to send relevant, timely, and personalized offers. Send a push notification about a happy hour special starting in 15 minutes. Announce a last-minute opening at the spa. If you know it’s a guest’s anniversary, send them an offer for a complimentary dessert at your restaurant. This type of targeted promotion feels like good service, not a sales pitch.
Use On-Property Digital Touchpoints:
Place QR codes strategically around your property. A QR code on a poolside lounge chair can link directly to your mobile ordering menu. A QR code in the elevator can link to a page showcasing daily activities. This makes it effortless for guests to engage with your services.
Encourage Social Sharing:
Create “Instagrammable” moments throughout your property—a beautiful art installation, a neon sign with a clever phrase, or a uniquely presented dish. Encourage guests to share their experiences online by creating a unique hashtag for your hotel and featuring user-generated content on your own social media channels.
Stage 6: The Post-Stay Stage
The guest has checked out, but the journey isn’t over. The post-stay stage is your opportunity to gather feedback, foster loyalty, and encourage a return visit. The guest’s mindset is reflective as they look back on their trip.
Guest Mindset: “That was a great trip. Should I leave a review? I wonder if I’ll go back.”
Key Touchpoints:
- Post-stay emails (surveys and thank you notes)
- Review sites
- Your social media channels and email newsletters
- Loyalty program communications
Marketing Strategies for the Post-Stay Stage
Your goal is to turn a satisfied guest into a loyal advocate and a repeat customer.
Send a Timely Feedback Request:
Within 24 hours of check-out, send a personalized email thanking the guest for their stay and asking for their feedback. Include a direct link to a simple internal survey. In the same email, include links to popular review sites like TripAdvisor and Google, making it easy for them to share their positive experience publicly.
Cultivate an Ongoing Relationship:
Don’t let the conversation end. Add the guest to your email newsletter list (with their permission) to keep them updated on hotel news and special offers. Engage with them if they tag your hotel on social media. This continued communication keeps your brand top-of-mind for their next “dreaming” stage.
Create Personalized Re-booking Offers:
Use the data you’ve collected to send targeted offers that encourage a return visit. If you know a guest stayed for their anniversary, send them an offer for a “Romantic Getaway” package around the same time next year. This level of personalization shows you remember and value them, dramatically increasing the likelihood of a repeat booking.
Conclusion: A Journey, Not a Destination

By viewing the guest experience as a continuous journey, marketing teams can move from shouting at crowds to having meaningful conversations with individuals. Aligning your strategies with the unique mindset and needs of guests at each of the six stages—Dreaming, Planning, Booking, Pre-Stay, On-Stay, and Post-Stay—allows you to build a powerful, cohesive marketing engine. This approach not only improves engagement and ROI but also fosters the kind of deep guest loyalty that is the ultimate measure of success in the hospitality industry.
Ready to align your marketing with the modern guest journey? Start by auditing your current efforts at each stage and identifying the opportunities to create a more seamless and personalized experience for your future guests.
Or see how Phunware’s hospitality solutions unify mobile apps, messaging, and location intelligence to deliver personalized experiences at every touchpoint.



